A parent had been trying to figure out why their child would not come down for dinner. One curious question got them the answer they never would have guessed. The food was bland. That week they connected over a meal they made together because of it.
ADHD is not the problem.
Navigating it without the full picture is.
Having the full picture means understanding the ADHDer’s brain, the ADHDer’s life outside of ADHD, and how the two are working together or against each other.
You have probably tried the strategies. The systems. The conversations that started well and went sideways. And somewhere in all of it you started wondering if you were the one getting it wrong.
You were not getting it wrong. You were working without the full picture.
A week to find the full picture.
A masterclass on how ADHD works, and how to apply that understanding to your real home, your real relationship, your real life. The difference between managing ADHD and navigating it.
5 prerecorded sessions to decode the brain.
To help you decode the brain, the patterns, and what has been missing in everything you have tried. Yours to watch and rewatch through the 2-week window.
5 live Zoom sessions in real time.
Apply what is in the videos to real homes, real questions, real situations.
Videos release Monday, Wednesday, and Friday the week of July 6, and Monday and Wednesday the week of July 13. Two weeks full access.
You bring your real questions. You get coached on your home, your child, your situation, by name.
You watch the room. ADHD shows up in similar patterns across every family. The question someone else asks is likely to turn out to be your question too. And the answer to that question is likely to fit your home also.
Who this is for.
The parent of an ADHDer.
You have read the books. You have tried the systems. You have watched the YouTube videos. You are not looking for one more tip. You are looking for someone to help you understand what is happening in your child’s brain, so the next hard moment makes sense before you react.
The spouse or partner of an ADHDer.
You love them. You are also exhausted. The same conversations keep happening on repeat, and the line between ADHD and the relationship has blurred. This week is where you start seeing the brain underneath the patterns, so the next hard conversation goes differently.
The adult with ADHD.
You have been told to try harder. You have been told to focus. You have built systems that worked for a week and then fell apart. You are not looking to be fixed. You are looking to be understood, so you can build a life that fits the brain you were given.
What you’ll walk away with.
A new way to see what is going on.
The blowup is not bad behavior. The shutdown is not giving up. The avoidance is not laziness. Once you see what is happening under the surface, the next hard moment makes sense before you react. The person across from you feels seen. What used to spiral into an argument starts turning into a conversation.
Answers shaped for your real life.
In Platinum, you bring your real questions and get coached on your home, your relationship, your real life. In General Admission, someone in the room asks the question you did not know you had, and the answer fits for you too. You walk out with ideas built for your situation, ready to use the next time it gets hard.
How to find the real reason behind the behavior.
A way of asking that uncovers the truth instead of the surface answer. The kind of question that has been missing from your conversations. They start to believe you want to understand them. And that kind of trust is what makes the people you love come to you in the hard moments, instead of hiding from you.
Proof that you are not the only one.
The parent next to you had the same dinner-table fight last night. The spouse on the call is tired of the same conversation you keep having. The ADHDer across the room is exhausted from feeling like they keep letting people down. The struggle you thought was just yours is shared by everyone in this room. You walk in alone. You walk out as someone navigating something hard, alongside everyone else doing the same.
You are not failing.
You have tried everything and nothing is sticking.
And somewhere underneath that is a fear that this is just how it is always going to be.
You know something deeper is driving the struggle but you cannot figure out what.
And the energy you keep pouring into it is never adding up. Every hard moment you cannot make sense of chips away at your trust in yourself, your time, and your belief that this can change.
It looks like capability one day and chaos the next.
And underneath, the belief is forming that the good days are not going to hold.
You keep trying and keep ending up back in the same place.
And some part of you has started to wonder if this is just as good as it gets.
That is not ADHD being hard. That is ADHD being navigated without the full picture: the brain, the life around it, and how the two are working together or against each other.
You are done surviving this. You are ready to navigate it.
What makes this different.
You are learning from someone who has ADHD and has made it her life’s mission to help others find their path forward.
In kindergarten, while all the other girls played in the kitchen, Tyler was on the floor building blocks with the boys. She got diagnosed in fifth grade after years of consistently struggling in school and being a behavior problem at home. She spent middle and high school making up whole semesters of work in her teachers’ classrooms at the end of every term. At home, she was the kind of behavior problem her parents could not wait to send off to college. She failed her first semester. She came back and still managed to graduate within four years. Since then, she has spent every year learning how to navigate an ADHD brain at every phase of her own life. Adulthood. Marriage. Motherhood, four kids in. Parenting a child with ADHD. What you are walking into this week is the result of a lifetime of figuring out what works in an ADHD brain, paired with twelve years of helping others do the same.
A framework that gives you a starting point.
This week hands you a framework refined across 7,000+ ADHDers and the families who love them since 2014. With that framework in place, the strategies you have already tried start working. They have something to sit on top of. The years of trying start adding up to something.
Coaching that goes home with you.
Whether the question in the room is yours or someone else’s, the answer is yours to use.
This is not about willpower.
Not capability. Not laziness. Not something more discipline would fix. This week starts from a different place. The kind where you stop pushing harder and start knowing what to do next.
Understanding ADHD changes what you know.
The live sessions change what you do with it.
Every session is a real room. A space where you bring what is happening in your home right now and work through it in real time with someone who understands what they are looking at.
The kind of room that gets you a piece of the puzzle you have been missing for years.
From past Platinum rooms.
A parent realized mid session that every time their child acted out they had been focused on stopping the behavior instead of understanding what was causing it. They left the room and tried a different question that same evening. For the first time in months the conversation did not spiral.
A parent discovered they had been trying to solve for motivation when the real layer was shame. Their child was not refusing help because they did not want to do the work. They were refusing it because asking for help felt like proof they could not do it themselves. Walking out they had a completely different place to start.
General Admission.
General Admission puts you in the room for all five live sessions.
You hear everything. Every question. Every answer. Every moment where the pieces start coming together for someone else. You will leave with answers to questions you never would have thought to ask. And more often than not one of them will be the answer you did not even know you had.
And sometimes that one answer is the thing that rewrites the whole story you have been telling yourself about what is going on. And a different story is what drives what you do next.
Real shifts from the room.
“I feel awful for the time spent in conflict because I had no clue of the why behind his behavior.”
“When your child is diagnosed with ADHD there is no information given on what that means. How their brain works. How to handle the big blowups.”
“The more I learn about this, the more I wish I had known sooner and could have been dealing with his blowups so differently over the years.”
“My son had a rough day at school. Once we talked to him about it, it was happening because he wasn’t understanding the math.”
“My 1 degree shift has been to imagine myself in my son’s shoes and remember he is not doing things on purpose but only reacting as he knows how right now.”
“I love what you said about setting him up to help himself. That’s what we want. To help him grow into an independent adult.”
“I came home and 5 out of 7 tasks were complete. No fighting or arguing about doing them was a big plus.”
An evening where the hard parts of the day stay at the door.
Where you find each other instead.
A conversation that opens.
The kind of connection that used to feel out of reach.
That is what understanding what is happening underneath makes possible.
Choose your experience.
For the person who is done with general answers and ready for specific ones. You bring your situation. Your child. Your home. And you work through it in real time with someone who can see what you have not been able to see yet. And even if you do not have a specific question yet, you are the kind of person who is going to squeeze everything they possibly can out of every single session.
- All five prerecorded training videos
- 5 live Zoom sessions, bring your real situation and ask your questions directly
- Two full weeks of access
For the person who knows they need the understanding but is not quite ready to put their situation in the room yet. You want to learn. You want to observe. You want to leave with clarity without having to be the one asking.
- All five prerecorded training videos
- A seat in all 5 live Platinum sessions
- Two full weeks of access
You have questions.
We have answers.
You have not tried everything. It just feels that way because what you have been trying has been missing a piece of the full picture. This week is not another thing to try. It is the understanding that makes everything you have already tried start to fall into place so that you can create a process that works.
Reserve my spotYou do not need them to be willing. You just need to be. Research shows it only takes one person consistently showing up with a different understanding to shift the entire dynamic around them. Not because anyone agreed to change. Because calm and clarity are contagious. This week gives you what you need to be that person.
Reserve my spotYes. If you knew exactly what you needed you would not be here. That uncertainty is not a problem. It is the starting point. You will not leave with all the answers. You will leave with the clarity to start finding them. And that is the skill that keeps working long after this week ends.
Reserve my spotOutput is not the measure. What it costs to produce it is. Whether it is a child holding it together at school while crashing at home, or an adult managing on the outside while running on empty on the inside, that is the signal. The time to build the foundation is before the scaffold disappears. Not after.
Reserve my spotCoaching is not classified as therapy so insurance does not cover it. However HSA and FSA accounts both do. Try your HSA or FSA card at checkout first. If it does not go through you can pay with your regular credit or debit card and submit for reimbursement.
Reserve my spotPlatinum is for the person who is ready to bring their specific situation into the room and get coached on it directly. You have questions. You want answers that fit your exact circumstances. You are ready to be in it. And even if you do not have a specific question yet, you are the kind of person who is going to squeeze everything they possibly can out of every single session.
General Admission is for the person who knows they need the understanding but is not quite ready to put their situation in the room yet. You want to learn. You want to observe. You want to leave with clarity without having to be the one asking.
Both get the full week of content and a seat in every live session. The difference is how deep in you are ready to go right now.
Reserve my spotAll videos are prerecorded and release on a schedule. You have two full weeks to watch at your own pace.
Reserve my spotCome to as many as you can. Each one covers different situations and different layers. And sometimes one question in that room is all it takes.
Think about a plane flying from New York to Los Angeles. If the nose shifts just one degree in the right direction at the start the plane lands exactly where it needs to be. One degree the wrong way and you are 40 miles off in Los Angeles traffic, or somewhere over the Pacific Ocean trying to figure out how you got there. One degree the right way and you land. One question in that room can be that one degree shift in the right direction. Small. Almost invisible in the moment. But it changes where you land entirely.
Reserve my spotYes. ADHD does not discriminate by age and neither does this week. The full picture is the full picture whether your person is 8 or 48.
Reserve my spotYes. And here is why. ADHD at its root looks remarkably similar across ages and circumstances. The details of your situation are yours. But the patterns underneath them show up in every room. Someone will describe their situation and you will think that is exactly what is happening in my home. Someone will ask a question you did not know you had and the answer will land like it was meant for you. The group is not what makes this less specific. It is what makes it more powerful.
Reserve my spotThis week is built for you too. Understanding your own brain, your own life, and how the two are working together or against each other changes everything about how you navigate from here.
Reserve my spotYou have been trying to find a solution for something that did not come with a user manual.
This week is where that changes. Not by handing you all the answers. By giving you a way to understand what is happening.
There is a way forward.
I want the full picture, reserve my spot